I just don't get it! Today I had to work at a benefit dinner and H had the kids he went to their games. Well he called me while we were cleaning up from the dinner and was pissy with me because I wasn't home yet and he was tired and hungry blah blah blah. So of course I was upset and rushed home and he had let the kids go with friends to their grandparents house. He proceeds to tell me not to discuss his personal life with strangers. I say what are you talking about? Oh I guess it's his life now. Apparently he was on the computer and went into the history and read what I posted yesterday about us having sex and me asking him to come home. I ask what was so bad about that he said I don't like you discussing my life with other people on the net. Hello they don't know who we are and these people have supported me and been there for me over the last few months. So my question is what is it that is bugging him what I posted or maybe it wa my reply that I want this to be over and I will survive. Had he ask me if I would show him what I've been posting I would have gladly done so. I don't understand why he takes offense to everything I do or say. Could it be the truth that he finds hard to deal with. Of course today he said we have a good day and then you just can't leave it like that then you start with the questions and say things about him coming home. He needs to be slapped back in to reality. Almost everyone I know is haviing problems with their marriage. What's going on? Life sucks!!<BR>C

Hugs to you Cybil... I really don't have anything constructive right now...quite tired... I don't know what is wrong with the WS. We all care about you. He has to understand that you need an outlet and we are here for you since he isn't at the moment. I thought I had "graduated" from here several times, but here I am again. Hugs to you.