I've been posting how WH has been so nice to me the past 2 days. He stopped after work to fix the leak and I was on MB. He ask if I was talking about him again I told him no because I was just replying. He went to the bank and then called me extremely pissed about our loan balance it should be paid off in 2 payments. I don't know what's going on I have to call them on Mon. So he was yelling at me and I ask him to please not do that. Said I'd call the bank and find out what's going on. He's Jeckyll/Hyde. He called and said he would be over later after he showered, ate and relaxed a while. Hello wish I could just relax there's always something to do here or do for someone else. I ask him if he thought about what we talked about the other day he said I haven't had time to think about anything. What I meant was we had talked briefly about counseling. Is that an LB that I asked if he thought about it? He said he didn't remember what we talked about. How convenient. I said I really don't want to argue with you and we hung up. Before we ended the conversation he ask me what I was doing tonight I said nothing really. Then he made some comment about me and my boyfriend. Why does he do this to see if he can get a reaction out of me. yeah I have a boyfriend 10 of them!! Why do WS's always have to act like as******? So now I'm feeling a little ticked off and I don't want to argue or LB when he gets here. It's the weekend and that's when we usually have it out. Nor do I want to end up sleepoing with him and be an emotional mess. What's a BS to do?

I know what you mean.My wife(ws) wont usually come to see the kids when she gets off work.Instead she goes and takes a shower,changes clothes watches tv and rests a while...while I chase after the kids all day.I dont get any rest,I dont get to watch tv.I do get some net time but that is pretty much my only outlet.<P>Luckily I will be moving monday and we will be on the bus line so we will be able to get up and go places without walking an hour just to get there.Walking an hour is no trouble for me..but with a 3 year old and a 6 year old on country roads and no sidewalks..it gets crazy.<P>

Good luck with your move owen. How far away will you be from your wife? How does she feel about the move? Thanks for your reply.