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To all BS, can you tell me how long it has been since D-day? Mine is going on 16 months and still going
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D-Day was 5 months and 11 days ago, but who's counting! lol
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10 months and 7 days. <P>L.
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Mine was 8 months. I still think about it each day.
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A#1 10 months and five days.<P>A# 2 1 month 20 days, though he hasn't agreed that it is an A...just friends.
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Well,she left may 27 2001 so 4 months now,guess the affair has been going on since early april though.
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D day was 6 months ago, and she has told me that she is no longer seeing him - he dumped her!, but unfortunately there's still no sign of her returning<P>mands
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Dday was April 2, 2001, almost six months ago and my H has found himself an apartment for October 1st to find "his happiness".
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D-Day was 2 years and 7 months ago. Recovery hasn't been easy, but we're getting there.<P>I suppose, according to Marriage Builders standards, we are as "fully recovered" as much we can be. My H is now everything I would want in a H, but in my heart, that one flaw (his decision to have an affair) will always exist.<P>That is the unfortunate reality of it. <p>[This message has been edited by Survivor [aka_NoTrust] (edited September 30, 2001).]
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6 Months, 2 Weeks, 4 Days= D-Day #1<P> 2 Weeks, 6 Days= D-Day #2<P> Got to keep trying! <P> jd
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Mine was july 24, 2001, 2 Months and 6 days everyday has been horrible since DDay, H was having an A for over a year until I found out. Sally
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2 months 12 days since D-Day, 1 month 11 days since we lived in the same place, 2 weeks since he moved out of the house to find his own place and not toalk to me at all.<P>Unfortunately nothing ever looks up, and nothing ever gets easier....at least not fer me right now.....<P>I guess we need some positive posts here...any recovery people?
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D-day has been 5 months...A started in March, I think. WS has been gone for 3 weeks and lives a few miles away. Keeps in touch and pays/helps with the home. Still very confused and does not know what he wants.<BR>TW<BR>
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D-day was 3/29/01 yesterday was 6mos. Although I believe EA was 6wks or so before he left.
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I think it was over a lifetime ago.. sure feels that way.<BR>Over 2 yrs ago.. nothing much better today than then though. *sigh* Actually many things in a worse state than DDay.<p>[This message has been edited by Waiting2Exhale (edited September 30, 2001).]
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D-Day was June 1,1999. So tomorrow will be going into month number 28. Gosh life has been hell since I found out-and my hurt will never stop. H loves me and I love him-but they turned my life upside down-and shattered my trust. I ahte the fact that I have to keep on living.............with this hurt.<P>------------------<BR>*heartache*<P>"Life's A Dance<BR>You Learn As You Go.<BR>Sometimes You Lead<BR>Sometimes You Follow!<BR>Don't worry 'Bout What You Don't Know<BR>LIfe's A Dance <BR>You Learn As You Go."
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2 months 16 days since 1st D-Day, 2 months since 2nd D-Day.... <BR>Judging from other posts...looks like I'm going to feel shredded for awhile. Good thing at this point I feel like H is worth it. <BR>The good thing is - there won't be a third "D"-Day....Next one will read as Divorce-Day.<BR>LLL
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D Day was 3 1/2 months, separated for last two. Are seeing some signs of improvement and backing off of her desire for divorce. Still unsure where we're headed though. Limbo really sucks, but what else do us BS's do? "Getting On" with our life is the same thing that we're doing now.<P>I thought anything over six months or so should be Plan B? Anybody making headway with a long term Plan A. That's gotta be tough.
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Tomorrow morning at 7:00 AM, it will be 18 months ago that I discovered the long, dark hair in our shower that obviously did not belong to me.....<P>When I first joined MB and saw other members that had been going through this for over a year I seriously thought I would die before being able to deal with it for that long. Well, here we are 18 months later---it has been hell on earth, but I am still very much alive.....<P>I also see that Terrified's dday was April 2, 2001 and I know of someone else that also had their dday on April 2, 1999. What is it about that date???? That is very, very scary!!
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Just over three months. Seems like 6 months, at least.<P>Truth be told, very little has changed, except my expectations.
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