He says he MISSES EVERYONE!!!<P>He is still in D, living with his W. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]<BR>She is waffling terribly - between the OM, and wanting to be "Friends" with H2Y. SHe doesn't want a D, but wants to be friends. I don't know if this is necessarily "waffling", or controlling from the OM. I think it's more of a control thing. I'm basing this on some of the things she says to H2Y - one day is "when are you moving out?" and the next day is "I'm glad you are here, Please don't leave.". ONe day she says she's dumping the OM - the next day - they are together. H2Y's presence there is protecting her from the abuse and some of the control. But she is going to have to decide to truly stay away from the OM - she's not ready.<P>He has done an excellent Plan A for 4 weeks now. His Love Bank is draining. But he plans on Plan A'ing til the end of the year.<P>He got a call about work, so hopefully will start this week. It's not what he wants, but will be something. He may move out into an apartment when he begins working. He is not sure. <P>Please pray for him and his family. All of this is pretty hard on the kids. He is doing his best to keep things calm and secure for them.<P>That's about it. Nothing big... he just wanted to update you and ask for prayers. He is constantly wondering if he's doing the right thing - just like many of us here. He is giving this his best shot, but is getting closer to acceptance that he can't fix it on his own.<p>[ October 17, 2001: Message edited by: Faith1 ]
