Just wanted to say thanks for the good advice the other day. I wrote my H an email saying I wasn't 100% in love, but that didn't mean I was 0% either and listed all the things I did love about him.<P>I'm not sure the impact it had, but he is saying how sorry he was for getting mad, saying he's just been really stressed, sick, etc. <P>But that is still no excuse and I can't wait to talk to the counselor on Friday. This is one of the things my H is trying to work on (not transferring his anger to me or trying to hurt me to see his pain).<P>Obviously he's not there yet, but hopefully some day...<P>Anyway, thanks.<BR>HbH