My H is a delivery man. He began talking on his cell phone with a woman in one of his stores. Of course I didn't know. When I did learn 3 weeks later, he admitted the whole thing and said he felt relieved that it was now out in the open. He has a problem which we have been to counseling for ( he has a need to please everyone but me) and he said this woman needed a friend to talk to. Anyhow to make a long story short, I went and saw this woman, she was LARGE! Definitely not my husband's type and very trashy looking. His talking to her doesn't bother me, it was the hiding the fact he was talking to her. He said it gave him a thrill. Their talk was everyday chit-chat, and that when she complained about her life, it wasn't his problem. I do believe my husband when he says there were no feelings for this woman, just someone to "play the game" with. The problem is, the stupid woman won't leave me alone. We had our phone number changed, cell phone number changed, but now she calls my work asking for me. My husband has had no contact with her in 9 months, has changed delivery routes to be away from her, but she still calls me! She just calls me a Fing b---ch and hangs up. What's her problem?

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by minerva:<BR><STRONG>.... My husband has had no contact with her in 9 months, has changed delivery routes to be away from her, but she still calls me! She just calls me a Fing b---ch and hangs up. What's her problem?</STRONG><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Keep working on filling your H EN, probably conversation. The fact that OW mad it show that H is really recovering and no contact. Just hang up and smile and feel like a winner, you win H. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] If it get to your nerve you could ask restraining order.

My H's OW contacted me when she was worried....you go girl! You have won!!!