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Hello everyone!!<BR>I just wanted to check in and let some know what was going on. I tried to get on before to clue everyone in but it was when the forum was down.<P>Last I had posted my H was leaving. I instead have taken a leave(FMLA) from work and headed back home (18hours away) with my girls for one month. I figured he can have his "space" for a bit and see if he can sort some things out in his head.<P>I am on week two out here in the midwest and am having a bit of a hard time. Nights are soooo very long and I'm not sleeping very well. I am haunted by dreams good and bad. I am really ready to just go home but I know that won't help anything if I go home too soon. <P>My girls (5 & 3) of course at times go through the "I want daddy" bit and then I have to deal with the thoughts of did I do the right thing by bringing them out here. <P>My H and I have talked a few times on the phone. Mostly "business" and have exchanged a few e-mails. He did today sign his "love ya" and I haven't seen that in some time. Of course I can't read too much into things.<P>Anyway I just wanted to touch base with some people and see how everyone was doing. Hope everyone is hanging in there and trying to enjoy some of this nice fall weather we have been having.
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Kid,<P> I know what you mean about dreams. I have them most nights. I relive nights or maybe a special time that I spent with my WS. I sometimes wake in the middle of the night and I look over to see if what I am going through was just a dream or not. I know that it is rough. Stay strong. You said that you are in the mid west. Where about? I am here in Indiana. Hence the name Indy.<P>Indy
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INdy-<BR>I'm hanging out in the MO/IA/NE area. Flatlands USA!! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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Kid,<P> That is the flatlands. I hope that you start to sleep better and that the kids can adjust to the new situation right now. I know that it can be hard. I have our kids and they ask for their mom every now and then. <P>Indy
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Been thinking about you KID...<P>I'm in one of the big dips right now on the rollercoaster...<P>Enjoy your time with your family.<P>Cali
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