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I posted last week about some positive changes in my H. Things have gone pretty well all week. Tonight he called after work and said he was coming over to bring the kids a pumpkin. During our conversation he also said that he wanted us to date. In the beginning when we first separated the counselor suggested that we do this and we did a few times. Tonight he said maybe we would go to dinner and a movie. I know I can't get to excited about this b/c tomorrow the fog could return. I am very impatient and I want it all now! H knows this. I also told him that I want him to come home and so do the kids and he said I will seriously think about it. He has never said that before usually I get the I'm not ready yet. He has also been very affectionate with me. The hugs are real hugs again not like he is hugging his aunt or something. This just blew me away when he said he's thinking about calling my counselor to talk to him. Someone please pinch me and tell me that the fog is beginning to lift. I don't want to set myself for a big let down but I see my H again for the first time in a long time. Please please keep praying for us. Thank you all for your continued support!
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Hi Cybil,<p>Good to hear from you. The news sounds good and I hope your H continues to work along with his family. Yes, you must be cautious and not float on cloud 9 too long. Be prepared for a little disappointment but enjoy the good time he is showing you. <p>Hugs coming your way. <p>Take Care,
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PINCH!!!!<p>What your describing is exactly how recovery got started for H and I!!!!!! You should see us now! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] Keep it light and fun, look ravishing and have a ball!! Continued prayers!
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Yeah cybil!!!<p>Take it slow and enjoy!! being together...<p>I am pulling for you!<p>Cali
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cybil, congrats!!! I hope all goes/went well on your date. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] I wish you all the best.
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