Hi everyone.<p>My story is that W is mixed up with OM from work. Every since D day (6 months ago), my W is a differnt person. You can read my other posts to see what's going on, but I can't take this no more. My W and I talked a month ago and she told me that "she does not want to try anymore" among other things. I was shocked.<p>Last week I asked her how she feels about us, and she said "I told you a month ago how I feel". I asked her to repeat it and she said the same "she does not want to try anymore". She said every hurtful thing that she could say to me. How she sees no change in me, but a few months ago she told me and the tharipist that she saw big changes in me. She has quit tharipy since then. My W said that "she cares about my well being" That's all. Well, that's how I feel about the mailman. I could right a book on all the nasty stuff she said about me that's not true.<p>Anyways, I asked if there is anyway for us to get back together, and she said no. I have been Plan "A"ing her, but with no results. I just keep geting dumped on. <p>So going forward I have sent my papers to the Lawyer for a D. I know that I should try, but for what? My W might be in fogland, but the things she said to me, I don't know if I could forgive her. Her change in the past 6 months has grown where that my W said "even if we were to get along better and communicate with each other more, Sex is out of the question. It will never happen again" My jaw dropped. I have little ones, but this is unhealthy for everyone. If my W is unhappy like she said she is, why is she still around. I think she does not want all the responsiblites.<p>I guess what I'm asking is what would you do and am I doing the right thing.<p>I know a lot of you will say to try, but I have not seen a glimmer of hope in 6 months, just hurtful stuff with no future.<p>
Dino
