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Looks like I'm waiting for his A to die a natural death. He says he'll return to me some day-when he's ready.
I'm hoping there will be some kind of payoff for my patience.
It's been over 8 months already since d-day.
If A dies a natural death do you think it is less likely to restart later on?
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Just want to add this thought- What if I'm the most patient and wonderful, sweet woman in the world to my WH. -I just was an energizer bunny of never ending love and sweetness. If he could have her and I both forever, would a man want to keep it going with both forever?<p>What do you think?
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That's what plan B is for. Plan A shows how great a person you really are, and should have been (and probably were at one point), and Plan B is the WHAMMO>.... Great person is gone. That's why the suggested 6 month plan A is there. You cannot live your life in your initial plan A forever. Once the OP is gone... THEN you can continue to extend your plan A to your S.<p>THere are no guarantees in life about whether or not anyone will end up in an A... you know no one is immune to it. As far as an A rekindling after a 'natural death', that's just less likely to happen than if it just ended abruptly with no closure (or whatever happens).<p>Just my opinions of course. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Karen
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