I just wanted to say a big thankyou to you Both, Lor and Freddie.<p>I wrote a post on the 25th Oct, regarding should I stick to plan B or go back to plan A. i was so confused, and you both gave me really good advice.<p>Anyway I wanted to let you know what has happened since then. I got in touch with H, he came around to talk and I said I wanted to go back to being friends, he said he didnt want to be friends anymore, but he wanted us to be a couple and start dating again! I was gobsmacked! Apparently having the no contact for 2 weeks made him realise how much he missed me.<p>So since Sunday we have been like we were 4 years ago, kissing and cuddling, I am so frightened to be to happy, but I am more hopeful now that one day he will say I Love You again!!He is talking about us as a couple again, and not him as a single bloke.<p>I feel I am dreaming hopefully one day he will move back in, but I know it is still early days.<p>But if it wasnt for you guys, I would probably still be in Plan B, and really miserable.<p>Thankyou so much<p>Lynne

Wow...how fun! As I recall, he wasn't much into affection before, so this is a step ahead, with behavioral changes. When words & actions are in conflict, believe the actions.<p>I'm really glad your relationship has taken this turn. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

Lyndilou,<p>that's great news [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] I'm really, really happy for you [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>- Freddy

Thanks again you two.