Hi, sd! Thanks for asking! I haven't posted lately, cuz I just don't know what to post, ya know? wow.... [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] It's so nice to be cared about. Thank you for asking. <p>wow. like i said. I just don't know. I'm so tired. over 5 months of this. I'm still trying to get H to to figure out what he's doing. I haven't been officially served Divorce papers, but he thinks I have, so he's gotta figure out what he's doing. I'm not gonna help him. SO I'm taking my time answering him to his proposed D agreement. It's not satisfactory to me, so I won't sign like it is. He expected me to agree and sign that nite. NOT!!! He says the A is over, and he has an apartment. <p>So, in the meantime, I'm not making extra efforts to Plan A him. I'm just being pleasant, and reminding him that I don't want a D. <p>We don't talk very often. And he takes forever in answering my questions. He seemed to be in such a hurry for me to sign, yet he's not answering my questions.<p>Well, I guess that's really all. I haven't called Steve back to find out if I should be PLan A'ing or not. 5 months since D-day... and 4 months of a good PLan A for me - although most of that was in separation. I'm doing pretty well emotionally. My love bank is almost empty. I really don't want him back. If he comes back again, the door is still open, but he will have to show actions this time instead of just words.<p>Thanks again for asking. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>[ November 04, 2001: Message edited by: Faith1 ]<p>[ November 11, 2001: Message edited by: Faith1 ]</p>