I have a new question----if WS goes through the process of finding out the OP is not for him and they split, what does that mean? Will there be just as much depression and withdrawal even though he decides to end it? Will the feelings for OP still be there strongly? Can it be rekindled easily if he decides that she aint for him?<p>Since they are co-workers, only a miracle will ever make totally no contact. I wonder how much hope there is when the A dies a natural death but the two still have contact?<p>TW