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Need copy of a Plan B letter - Ready for no contact
#957329 11/12/01 08:25 PM
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Is anyone out there willing to share with me how they wrote their Plan B letter to WS? I am ready to move to this step....H is still very much involved with OW and as you all told me....apartment was for thier convienacne...he is not trying to "work out" his feelings for me....just enjoying his A with OW even more.....they can come and go as they please.....I need to move on to Plan B for my sake.......Help please.......
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Faith,<p>There are a couple of examples on the PlanA/PlanB board that you can check out. Also, I believe that there's an example in "Surviving an Affair". You could check it out in a local bookstore.<p>Hope this helps a little. Good luck and God bless.<p>Kev
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I'm lookin for it, Faith. I was sure it was linked on Notable Threads, darn it! I'll get back to you as soon as I locate it.<p>Lv,
Jo<p>BTW: Hon, I'm sorry about the current revelation regarding your H using the apt to see OW. It really sux. Just know this is pretty typical, hopefully they will get the A out in the light of day so their ending will progress faster.<p>I'm thinking about you, I know you hurt.<p>Love,
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Here you go, Faith. Listen Hon, go to this link and read about implimenting Plan B. Toward the middle bottom of the first thread are about 4 samples of Plan B letters.<p>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000177.html<p>Let me know if you need any help, k?<p>Love,
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Faith4Us - you can read 5 samples linked from here - Plan B 101. Also suggest you read Plan B 201 while you're at it.<p>My two draft plan B letters are here. I'm going to give my wife a version close to the second one, either tomorrow night or Wednesday night, whenever her car gets fixed. She's in a rotten mood with her car in the shop, so that's why I'm waiting.<p>Good luck to both of us.<p>- Tom
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#957334 11/13/01 02:23 AM
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Thanks to all for responding....As you can see, I am not sleeping very well these days and am doing my best.....I have looked at some of the information and will review again in the morning....
Thanks to all, I really appreciate your help....I will let you guys know what I do....
good night......
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I have no advice regarding a planb letter, just wanted you to know that I have been thinking about you and wondering how you are. Sorry that you are having troubles,I am not doing to good either. please keep in contact. <p>
Love Sally

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