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I want to trust my W but I don't. OM works with her but she will not tell me his name. I want to be able to better verify that A is truly over. She has used so much of that "fog" language lately that I have deep suspicions. Is it crucial that the no contact letter is delivered to OP? Is a large part of recovery that WS honestly answer all questions of BS re: A?<p>I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or if I should have access to this information. These fears seem to be rampant among BS, especially during the first few months after discovery. How to best cope and proceed. I feel I must be able to verify. Feeling very insecure.<p>[ November 30, 2001: Message edited by: RJB2 ]</p>
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RJB2, I don't know how long have you doing plan A. Addmiting A and signing no contact letter is not the end of this mess. Get conseling w/ MB practitioner together and let the conselor set the POJA plus Radical Honesty to protect & build trust. See reply by BrambleRose on the following topic: Constraints without demanding
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