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My W and I have been to two MC's. The first we both agreed wasn't for us, the second just said that there wasn't much he could do to help us. My IC just gave me the name of another MC that supposedly is the best in the field. <p>I am 90% sure my W is still seeing OM but she has agreed to go to one more MC with me. Is this a waste of time if she is still seeing OM? I don't want to blow my last chance at MC'ing. Do you think a good MC will see through her lieing about seeing OM or was the last MC we were seeing accurate in saying there was nothing he could do for us (because she was still seeing OM and MC did not know about it).<p>I'm extremely confused here. please help.

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Yes, I think a good MC will help. How about using the phone counseling service offered by Steve or Jennifer? You can use the individual one or as a couple? It might be helpful. Unless your W is a very visual person and needs to see the counselor. I am not sure where you are located, I think Steve and Jennifer are in Minnesota. <p>L.


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