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Re: Family and Thanksgiving
#958659 11/20/01 07:54 PM
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You call, I ansewer.
I'm the mom of the single OW. Estes is Mom of the DIL.
I wish I could help. You are truly in a hard place. If your H wanted to reconcile he would be wise to give his parents the SAA book. Then explain that he had a part in the demise of your marriage.
Re: Family and Thanksgiving
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Ruth -- thanks. Good overall advice, however we don't have enough time to implement that by tomorrow.<p>H says I am a coward. And he's hardly speaking to me. <p>H called me last night and was questioning me about my cell phone. I told him that I had not been speaking to OM at the time he was questioning me (truthful). We are not in recovery and are very close to filing for D. He then went on to ask me if I would give him my cell phone bill so that he could see for himself.
I told him no...we are not (I am not) trying to rebuild trust and rebuild this marriage. If we were, I would do anything and everything to reassure him. Thats just not where we are.
Re: Family and Thanksgiving
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Hey,<p>For the record, I am the BS, invited to Christmas functions on the IL side of the family, and I DO NOT want to go. But I will, and I will hold my head high, and if anyone dares to ask, I will tell them that their golden boy has thrown a gasket, as they say in Oz. I am the "Good One", and yet I feel ashamed. How must you feel Lexxxy2? I truly feel for you, and send you lots of light.<p>Jacky
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