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Advice Please !!
#959027 11/21/01 10:49 AM
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I am slowly coming to the realization that perhaps my M is over. My WS shows no signs of working on our M, although she says she wants to. Her vacilating is driving me insane.<p>It appears that she would prefer that I make the decision, and I'm thinking that we separate. Although she will not move out (threw all her clothes out about a month ago, but apologized). We cannot afford for either of us to rent an apartment at the moment, so I'm thinking of selling our house, and then separating. Would this have any negative implications on custody or spousal support if we do get a D?<p>Is this a sensible move. I can't help thinking that separating would push us into a D, since I would move away (possibly different country), and she would remain local.
Re: Advice Please !!
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Depends on what you want in your heart. If you want to heal your marriage, it could be a bad move to seperate at this time. <p> Have you done the best Plan A possible? If not, it is SOOOO much harder to plan a in seperation. <p> I would advise not seperating at this time and doing the best possible Plan A.<p> Just my thoughts.<p> jd

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