Hi, I normally post in recovery but I do peek in here every once in a while. I saw your first couple of posts and I thought, "Oh GOD, not another OW." (I am a BS) I'll tell you, I had my flamethrower ready...but I have to say that I think that it's great that you're here. I have found that I agree with a lot of your perspectives even though we come from totally different sides of the fence. I hope that you continue to post and learn here.<p>Another thing - people's personal beliefs shouldn't be flamed here. I'm a MBer, and after much soul-searching, have realized that I am not a Christian. But like KS, I'm a very spiritual person. Everybody is entitled to their beliefs and should not be judged for them by those who disagree. It seems like the biggest target for everybody in that thread was the fact that she wasn't Christian. Is this a place to learn about enhancing marriages and relationships FOR ALL THREE SIDES of the triangle or is this a mission? Don't get me wrong - Christians are wonderful, wonderful people, but just because somebody isn't one doesn't give them the right to condemn them. If Christianity is correct, God will do that - y'all don't need to worry about it. Okay, I'll get off of my soapbox now. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

I just saw this now. <p>Thanks Carolina Belle. I was SACRED to death to read yet another thread addressed to me. I was all ready for flames.<p>As I am an emotional wreck today, glad there were none! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]