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Addicted to Adultery ???
#960997 12/01/01 11:34 AM
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I was recently in a "Buck a Book" store & found a great book caled Addicted to Adultery.<p>For only $1.00 I finally read something that made so much sense. <p>Has anyone read it or heard of the "WESOM" organization. It stands for We Saved Our Marrige.<p>So many WS seem like they are really just addicts. This book tells of a prominent lawyer/cop who has a 3+ year affair & pretty much destroys his marriage, family, job etc etc.<p>It is enlightening to hear his story. His inability to let go of the OP. He knowa it's wrong, he feels guilty, but he can't stop. No matter what.<p>Sounds so familiar to so many on this sight.<p>I need to talk to someone today.<p>H still not being truthful...
I'm falling out of love...
Getting tired of being the only one working at this recovery..<p>Thanks for your replies..
Lisa
Re: Addicted to Adultery ???
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Hi louser,
I had the book, got it about the time I served D papers, read just a little, it sounded familiar to other books I had already read--SAA, AFTER THE AFFAIR, LOVE LIFE FOR EVERY MARRIAGE, HOW TO GET YOUR LOVER BACK. So I never finished it. After we began recovery, I didn't want to read it, passed it on....<p>Recovery is tough when you work alone. Just remember that sometimes the WS effort looks different than the BS effort. If your H is home, he's probably making effort to be there, even if it isn't quite what you want or need.<p>A good place to start is the 15 hours a week spent together. It makes communication easier if you have been doing things together.<p>If you aren't in counseling, give that a try as well.

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