Hello,
I was wondering if there is any WS out there in recovery, that truely felt in love with the OW/OM.
How did you resolve those feelings, get past it, and move on. I am the BS and my WS just can't get over or understand why he has these fellings yet. He trusts her to open up too, he thinks he will be happier with her, she's his best friend, they are on the same page, going the same directions at the same speed, yada yada yada. The A ended in May, phone contact for the following 3 months and no contact the last 3 months until this past weekend. I know I want to work this out, but it hurts me to see him go through this. What is he holding on to???<p>
F-35
Married 6 1/2 yrs together 10
D-day 5/01
no kids
no contact letter (H said it wouldn't change anything)
In counseling since 6/01
PS. Said he still loves me, but he is in love with her more.