my husband and i have been separted for 6 weeks now. after he filed for a divorce, i returned back home to be near friends and family. we are about a 4 hour drive apart, and have only seen each other once during this 6 weeks. when i left, i felt like he didn't love me anymore and that he wanted to go on with his life without me.<p>since i've been gone, he's called often. he asks if i am seeing anyone, have i gone to dinner with anyone, have i been intimate with anyone. i answer with the truth-NO! but his questions seem so out of character for someone who made it clear to me that they didn't care about me anymore.<p>in an effort to reconcile and bring my kids closer to their father, i have decided to move back. my husband seemed somewhat excited, it seems as though he can't stand not knowing what i am doing out here.<p>i don't want to read too much into his questions, but it sounds like he still wants me but doesn't know how to say it.<p>any thoughts would be appreciated.

Don't start reading too much into things just yet.....but this is a good start.<p>IMHO....I see this as the WS not wanting their W/H but not wanting anyone else to have them either. Fence sitting.<p>My WH did the same thing....and when I actually did go out and it happened to be with a male friend....he went nuts.<p>You're WH isn't really going to believe you even though you are telling the truth. Afterall....he did it...nothing says you won't either.<p>Do your best Plan A from here. He's starting to see exactly what he is missing.

Thank you Miss Priss. I am limiting my contact with him, and really don't feel the urge to want to know what he is doing, I feel really that it is nothing that would make me feel good about myself, so why bother.<p>He may be missing me, i hope he is, but time will tell.
I'm somewhat afraid now. Right now i am in a comfort zone, i'm away from him, i don't know what he is doing, and i have my friends and family to fall back on. when i move, i wont have any friends or family, just him-my hope is that once were closer, we can work on things, see each other more. who knows, but God!<p>[ December 03, 2001: Message edited by: SEBREA ]</p>