My H company Christmas Party is tomorrow (new job). I want to go for a couple reasons:
1. It would help me to feel he is proud to be with me.
2. He has had 2 OW that were coworkers (that I know of - maybe more). He no longer works with them but I would like to see what the other competition is like.
3. To show people we are happily married (hopefully we will come across that way - although I am not sure we are).<p>We have known about it for 3 weeks. We were planning on going up until about 5 minutes ago and my H said he doesn't feel like driving the kids all the way to his sister's house then going out on a work night. He said we could just go out Friday night and see if we can find a sitter. I replied and said I would take them if he doesn't feel like it and he said never mind - he will take them. <p>See the thing is for the last 3 weeks I have been thinking - he says we are going but he will come up with a reason why we won't. His history is he doesn't want me there so we won't go. <p>Waiting on his next excuse not to go. Wondering if I should mention any of the 3 reasons above. <p>The one Christmas party we went to together went like this: they sold tickets so anyone could go - I invited 3 of my girlfriends for support and fun. It was a good thing they came - we had a great time dancing me and my friends (with each other - not with guys). While my H sat up front with another woman (I don't know if she was an OW) because they were host and hostess - which sucked. Me and my h danced once. He also invited another woman to dance (I don't know if she was an OW) but he began dancing provocatively with her - not as seduction but rather trying to be silly. She was VERY embarrassed - I saw her lips move as she jestured at me - YOUR WIFE! He just laughed. I stormed out - he followed - I told him don't EVER disrespect me that way again - he thought I was making a big deal out of nothing. Whatever, that was 3 Christmas's ago. <p>Where do I go from here?
