I just got done talking with Dr. W. Harley on his radio show. Wow what a great program and what a great program to get free advise!<p>We spoke mainly about Plan B and questions I have. We ended up getting cut short but then he talk to me off the air for another 15 minutes.<p>Has anyone else ever called in?<p>FYI: AM980 KKMS<p>Dr. Harley takes questions every Monday from 1:00-2:00 at 1-888-332-5169. You can hear the program live by going to the site above.<p>I feel so refreshed talking to "the man" himself and finding out that what I'm doing is right!<p>Prayers for all of you,<p>Le<p>[ December 17, 2001: Message edited by: Moving Forward ]</p>

Wow! Glad you got some support and sounds like some questions answered...<p>I am assuming that the time is EST? I'll have to take a listen some Monday.

Cali,<p>It's Central Time.<p>It was very worth while! They only get 3 or 4 calls to fit into the hour show because him and his wife spend allot of time with each caller.<p>Le

Moving Forward:<p>Yeah, he's fun to talk with---and he can be a great deal of help. I also encourage you to use the counseling service (not cheap but well worth the investment) if you find yourself stuck (888-639-1639 for appointments). Steve and Jenn Harley are terrific coaches, motivators, and counselors---and they can really get you up to speed more quickly then any other method. I probably spent about $1K in counseling with Steve (and it'd probably be $2K). But the results were, as the ad says, "priceless".<p> [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

Central time? Right, so if the UK is 8 hours ahead of California, and 5 hours ahead of New York - how many hours ahead of Central?

central time would be 6 hours behind your time, venus. central time is 1 hour behind NY.<p>Have a great tomorrow all. [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img]
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venusenvy, <p>It would be 6 Hours.<p>Le

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K-<p>If you caught the end, you were probably listening to me. Not much came out when we were on the air. Afterwards, I was able to talk to Dr. Harley for about 20 minutes and it was very encouraging. It took a while to get my whole story out so he knew where I was coming from. Then, I was able to ask him 3 questions that concerned me most.<p>My questions were:<p>Q-1) Should I be in Plan B when I could still be plan Aing.<p>A-1) Plan B is exactly the right thing to be doing because this is the 3rd time he has left for the OW. He has also mentioned divorce for the first time. Dr. Harley said to start Plan A again when and if their relationship is over and not a minute sooner.<p>Q-2) He hasn't made any arrangements to spend time with the kids (D-14 & S-10) yet after 3 weeks. Should I try to force him to visit them?<p>A-2) Don't do anything, just explain to the kids that his affair is affecting his thinking and he is not himself. Then just be the best mom to them as possible.<p>Q-3) What kind of timeline am I looking at now with this 3rd relapse?<p>A-3) Dr. Harley said that the window of opportunity is very small. Only about 2 months. He said this is mostly because I will finally give up.<p>So anyway, I guess I'm doing everything right and I hope that he does come home again. I know that after 3 rounds of this, he will have to be appologetic and remorseful this time or I won't believe he is home for good! In the past he wasn't. I won't/can't put myself or the kids through a round 4!!<p>Prayer and drawing closer to God has given me strength and patience that I never knew existed! My main prayer is:<p> "Lord God, I pray that your Holy Spirit is living within WH. Please bless WH with peace, comfort and relief when he is thinking or doing something that is in accordance to You. When WH is not doing or thinking something that pleases You, I pray that he is filled with guilt, pain, loneliness and regret."<p>I also say this prayer for the OW. God is powerful and I know He gives us the opportunity to make our own choices. I am just praying that the choices are influenced heavily by the Holy Spirit!<p>Prayer to all of you!<p>Le

Yes, I sent him email while he was on the air and he answered it right then. Amazing and very much appreciated.

Can't wait until next monday, I definitely want to listen and try to call if I can or email... <p>???'s
1. What station, is this on the internet, or on radio stations cross country ?
2. What email address do you email during show..?
3. It is central time, right?<p>Thanks so much, my life feel apart... or rather I let myself fall apart on christmas eve and now am trying plan b to rebuild my sanity.<p>HUGS, HONEY

Go to the radio link on this site and it will instruct you. You can listen live through the computer. I just called this past Monday and got through immediately. Give it a try. K