I have printed out your Good Morning to All and I intend to give it to my husband. <p>I did notice though in reading over all the posts that you say you came out of the fog almost immediately.<p>My husband says he is in love with both me and OW and is very confused, therefore, left to sort things out.<p>If you don't mind me asking, did you feel that you were in love with the OW and how long was the A going on before your wonderful wife found out.<p>I hate to compare, but I'm just trying to prepare myself for him saying that you probably didn't feel that you were in love.<p>I'm also hoping that he will contact you (since you were nice enough to put your email on that post). He has noone to talk to that he knows of that has ever been in this situation (although I'm sure they are out there, they were probably just strong enough to work it through like you).<p>Hope to hear from you.

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