I must live in a bad place (se mich), this about the 3rd time in last 8-9 months posted something like this. A man from the next town over Ypsilanti, MI apparently murdered his wife and 2 kids. They recently moved to oregon, and the bodies were found in a bay on the coast. The suspect, last name longo, is now on fbi's 10 most wanted list, and has been sighted a couple times. Interviews with local people who knew them described the couple as seemingly normal, loving, nice kids, the usual...obviously a secret life was probably going on, and the man is clearly a psychopath... no one knows what happend, like was she trying to leave him (the most likely scenario). He lookes like any normal person from his photographs. But the point is, if there is ANY slightest suspicion your H (especially) is not quite right, disturbing episodes of emotional/physical abuse, etc. BE CAREFUL, especially if you are trying to end it. Another incident occured in Phoenix last year, a man faked a gas explosion and blew up his house, killing wife and kids (who were murdered first, as the police quickly ascertained), not sure if he has been caught yet....but the issue there was his affair, her discovery, and confrontation. Again this was described as a good couple, blah blah blah....soico/psychopaths do not wear signs on their foreheads, and there are a lot more of them than you think. Thankfully most are not murderers, but they are very dangerous to your emotional/physical well-being. They often appear to be nice people, good workers, devoted parent etc. etc.....but usually the wife knows something is not right, that some kind of anger is burbling just under the surface, trouble is she has no support, no one (including her) is willing to believe there is a serious problem.... but anyone who describes their marriage as walking on eggshells, needs to look very hard at what is going on, and seek help, and be very very careful.
