Well I finally got up the nerve to ask my WS about the state of our M. Saturday night I brought it up, I just casually asked her how she thought we were doing. She seemed a bit off guard about it and asked why I was asking now. I replied that we had not talked about anything in almost a year and I needed to know how she felt we were doing. I made it all positive even told her if she wasn't comfortable talking now we could talk later in the week. She said she thought things were going OK and that I was being great, and she agreed we needed to talk but wanted to wait until this week. Now here's what's bothering me. Thursday night , before going to work she took a long time in the bathroom. I know she used a fragrance douche ( something she has never used in 5 years of marriage). She also wore a pair of VS panties ( which I have never seen, and she checked her fertility with one of those test kits. Friday morning before I left for work she said she wasn't going any where, but when I got home I know her vehicle had been moved and she still claimed she did not leave the house. This morning , after using another of those test, she called and told me she was meeting a friend for breakfast and would seem when I got home. She turned down my request for intimacy Saturday night and said Sunday would be better but I wasn't invited to the party. Is this what I think it is, and How do I confront this stuff without LBs? I am about to have an LB explosion and am trying to not. help !
