Well, folks, yesterday I posted, in a panic, about my WW being out at that very moment with OM.
You all helped me get thru the day. Thanks, this site is my lifeline right now. Anyway, based on what I've learned, it looks like it wasn't true. Unless they are creating a false e-mail trail, OM was sending her e-mails about missing her at the exact time I thought they were together. And when she returned home at 1:30 pm, she sent him e-mail about how she wishes she could see him soon. So, good news.
Except, WW was out from 8:00 til 1:30 and would only account for 1 hour spent at Starbucks and Deli. I asked her point blank where she was and she wouldn't answer (I know, I LB'd). All she said was she wasn't with WW and, in response to my Q, she wasn't with lawyer. So where the heck was she? I guess I'll never know. Part of being married to a WW I guess.<p>Today I am doing better. But I have to avoid being captured by bad thoughts (them together, her divorcing me, etc). WW says she sees a change in me, but she's not sure if real. She is waiting for me to "lower the boom". I have to be patient, consistent, and try, at all costs and with much pain, to avoid discussing OM or A. Plan A all the way.<p>Aside: last nite OM was in a Divorce chat room and I stopped in, using an unfamiliar screen name. OM was going on and on about NJ divorce law(he knows it inside out) and about how his wife was a B***H and she caused divorce, and that she thinks it was his fault. OM also said he would soon "be free" from the B***H and able to finally be happy with a good woman (my WW). This is interesting. My WW has always thought chat rooms were idiotic and she got mad at me anytime I went in one. Also, OM sent WW e-mail that his wife migfht be contacting her to "make hurtful remarks"
and WW should ignore. He also said that his wife never trusted him (Duhhhh?).<p>So maybe things are looking up for old Boppo57, eh?
