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I really want my H to talk to the Harleys with me. He is very reluctant and kind of turned off councelors due to a bad experience we had with one. <p>Anyone out there had success in talking a reluctant WS into speaking with Harleys. Even just once.<p>I have decided that I will talk with them alone if he absolutly wont. Sent my request for an appointment today.<p>He has admitted to being so scared and confused about what to do and can't understand why it is so hard for him to leave me. I don't want to come off as trying to educate or clinging to him. I don't know the words, that's why I am hoping the Harleys can help.<p>Anyway,
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needing,
Take the first step to talk to Harley. SH asked me to pass the message that he would like to talk to my WW. It is not an LB if it comes from him. Second I told my WW, it is to help me to see her point of view (excuses/justifications of A) [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] . She did 3 times w/ Harley then droped out. I think SH already plan a seed or two.<p>Good luck.


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