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#971921 01/22/02 09:15 PM
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Is it OK to ask H (WS) to look at the postings on this sight? Will that push him further away or perhaps provide some insight. There is so much good info available, but he is so certain that his thoughts are right. I don't know how to proceed.

#971922 01/22/02 09:33 PM
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Bailee,
Don't ask. If H is asking then let him otherwise you will loose support system that you have here. When H is in the fog, better let him out of this site. I do not ask my WW even she knows I post here and to my advantage she said to my 2 D that this site is stupid !!!. There is an appropriate time when your H is willing to work on M to bring him in.

#971923 01/22/02 09:46 PM
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Bailee, it is sort of up to you. At one point, I had give my WS some info from MB. After a while, he was reacting like he had read what I had put on the forum. It got me very paranoid. I felt like I couldn't vent or I couldn't put anything personal about our M or his A in writing. I finally decided to change forums to get away from that feeling. It worked. I think you have to make the decision. I know that Rev and his W both post here.

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Bailee, it is sort of up to you. At one point, I had give my WS some info from MB. After a while, he was reacting like he had read what I had put on the forum. It got me very paranoid. I felt like I couldn't vent or I couldn't put anything personal about our M or his A in writing. I finally decided to change forums to get away from that feeling. It worked. I think you have to make the decision. I know that Rev and his W both post here.


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