I think this web-site if great. It gives both BS's & WS's a chance to vent & be comforted. I feel bad though. My H (the BS) is in jail, for DUI. He is an alcoholic. He is really hurting, as I'm sure you can all understand. He is going thru rehabilitaiton, along with having to deal with my A. We are trying to work things out. I wish he could come on here & talk to others in his situation. Anyway, I just thought I'd see if any BS's would be willing to write to him, in jail (I know that sounds bad, but really, he is a good person, he is just sick, with alcoholism) So, please, if you'd be willing, you can e-mail me at mdaley@talk.com for his address or more info. Thanks!!!