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My husband of seven years started flirting with the neighbor ladies that we socialize with a good bit about a year ago..This is not the man I married.I have never seen this side of him.I have confronted him on many occasions(angry at times and rationally the next)and he says theres nothing to it but he wouldn't do it if upset me or our marriage.Guess what?He's still flirting.I am now humiliated,angry and exhausted and do not know what to do.Help!!!
P.S.I'm seeing a counselor.
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Are the neighbors flirting back? because if so to me it just sounds like the flirting is making him feel good about himself. I know when I go out w-out the H I like to flirt but it is just harmless I guess in a way it makes you feel like you are still desirable to the opposite sex. If you have told him that it bothers you and he still flirts than maybe you should tell him again that it is making you uncomfortable. It sounds harmless I would'nt be to concerned. It also depends on the kind of flirting.
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sevenyear,<p>Let me welcome you to MB!! There is alot of useful info on this site and you need to read as much as you can.<p>If you go over to "Just found out" there is a welcome thread with links and things that you can visit. Also look for any threads from redhat as he has links in his signature.<p>My thought is you are very uncomfortable with what your H is doing or you would not have searched this site out.<p>What has your counselor said about your H behavior?<p>What can you do to make him stop Flirting? Nothing!! You need to explain how and why this hurst you with out LBing, pick and choose your words carefully.<p>Continue to read and post here. Please read all the info you can here!!<p>Dawn
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