I was advised to post on this board for more input and support. Please, please, please help me. <p> It has only been 23 days since Dday and I still don't know where we stand. My H has cut all communication, changed his phone # and is in another country with OW. He has e-mailed me twice.
Please read my posts on the Just Found Out Board under "Please Tell Me What To Say!!!"<p> I am seeing a therapist and have had one session with Jennifer H. I have bought all the books on this site and have read five so far. Redhat has been my guide and I am so thankful for his words of encouragement.<p> I would really appreciate some advice, help, etc.<p> I have not hit the anger stage yet. I still love my H. I still completely believe that this will work out. I know I have at least two years to go because of our unique sitiation. Please read my posts. I am in denial and it is killing me.
PLEASE save me!
Forgiver

Hi, <p>You are not alone in this situaion. I will go over and read your other thread. I will be back later. <p>Take Care,
L.

Hi forgiver,<p>I have just read and responded on your other thread. Keep posting. You are actually doing a good plan A. His family is doing the plan B so that is ok. <p>Now about his schooling, can't he transfer to a closer school here in the states? Wouldn't he get better credits and referral ability? <p>Here is the link to your other thread: http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=29&t=001282 <p>
JMHO,
L.

Thanks Orchid,<p> My H will not transfer to another school because the school he is in gives a better education than a school in the states. He is in a state school, it just happens to be located on a tropical island. Their main offices are in NYC.
Also, the program there only lasts three years as oppossed to 4 to 6 years in the states. It is an intensive year round program that is very difficult to get into. He liked the idea of going through school faster so he can start his career faster. The classes are much smaller and it is an environment he prefers.....obviously. He lived in the south pacific for a short time years ago. He loves the tropics. A big scuba diver and underwater photographer. Also a big surfer.
Thanks for your input.
Forgiver