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This web site is for the purpose of building healthy marriages. It is not here for you to spy on your MM/MW. If that is your purpose of visiting here please stay away. <p>What on earth are you trying to do? Have you not already caused enough harm in the lives of innocent people and the MM. (No he is not your SMM (significant married man... barf).<p>Maybe if you are going to use this board as a way to communicate. We can get a brigade of MB's over to gloryb and have some fun. <p>STAY AWAY with your evil games.

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HI zor,
would you please list the posting names for those of us that are too dense to figure it out?! Me....for one! I only get to read occ for a few secs, so often I miss things. Thanks, cl

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Yeah, Z...I saw your post and I was like "huh"? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

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TTF, <p>MB periodically gets visitors from the TOW board (such as glory B). There is nothing wrong with that, however the intent of the visit can become an issue where the MB administrators have had to get involved (the OWs come here, stir up trouble and report it back on glory b.). I know this sounds very childish and hurtful but truth of the matter is that it happens here. Right now there are some of the OWs on the preg/child site trying to reek havoc (admins have been notified) and some following the progress of an MBer on a site here at MB. <p>TTF, that is why some of our comments on MB seem a bit strong. Some of us are aware of the TOW's presence and yet we also see the need to support and help all. Not all from the TOW board are vengeful or hurtful but if you have ever read their stuff you will see that their intent is not to keep families together but promote their selfish interests. Some even want to act like the W and claim such. So all those threats and talks about the OW claiming their 'wifely rights' from their MM come from such places. <p>Not all are like that but enough on TOW are. Just wanted to let you know. Being here for even the short time that I have has been a real education. There are people here who are hurt and trying to heal. We really don't need to solicit advice from those bent on hurting our families or the family structure even more. <p>These OWs who do this are fake, wanna be mates. Talk about fog, they often try to make others support their fog. If this is all new news to you, good. Just know they are out there and to all.....please be careful. <p>I just saw a Judge Judy show late last night (while I was folding clothes - LOL!!! ) and there was a case of a couple living together, broke up, she continued to pay on the lease for an extra month but he had started an 'internet' romance and the OW was in court with him!!! Now while they weren't married the agreement was no one else in the apt while the girlfriend was helping pay for the lease. Hm..... the OW really looked like an OW - arrogant and stupid looking. She kept shaking her head and acted like she had the right to be there. The guy? Well he looked a bit lost and dumb. The 1st girlfriend? She looked glad to finally be out of there and just wanted her name cleared. I didn't watch the end but the Judge was not happy when she looked at the OW. Real look of disgust on her face. The OW? Not a clue. Ditzy woman. Another Dumb bunny!!! <p>
CL, I am not sure how much or what Z can tell, she may need some assistance. If you can lend a hand would you be willing to e-mail myself or Z? <p>Let me know. <p>Thanks,
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HI Orchid, HI zor,
Yep, stange people do pop in here occ. It would be great if we could have a warning list without having to scout around and read between the lines. Some are quite obvious....others must have more time to spend at being *****.
Let me know what and how? aloha, cl

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Hi CL, <p>I just heard from Z.
I will remove it after you acknowledge you have it. <p>Thanks,
L.<p>[ January 26, 2002: Message edited by: Orchid ]</p>

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Hi Orchid,<p>I just wrote you too... hope it's okay!! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

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Me and my ADHD mind. I just wanted to help and probably crossed all sorts of social boundaries by writing you when you put your address out for someone else.<p>I'm really sorry.

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HI Orchid,
e-mail sent, you can erase.
HI nb! Stay warm today. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]

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Hi cl,<p>Actually, it IS quite warm for this time of year. Not like CALIFORNIA, of course, or the ISLANDS, or anything, but not freezing!! YEA!! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Husband has to work this weekend - ick. But it's a JOB, thank GOD!!

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Hi Cl and Sheryl,<p>Sheryl, I thought you already had my addy. No matter. I always love hearing from you. You have helped me a lot. <p>So CL, you in the islands? I get homesick a lot. Even though I have been transplanted here most of my life and am really a ko-tonk!!!! <p>I can't check that addy here at work but I will e-mail you both when I get home. <p>Thanks both for your help. I respect both of your opinions. <p>Sheryl, I have always wanted to go to Canada. Maybe someday. I would like to go to Banff area(sp??). Maybe one day!!!!<p>Take Care,
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I lost quite a few addresses when I stopped using my old account. I don't even have cl's anymore! [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] I used to get daily stuff from her... always uplifting!!<p>Anywho, Banff. Yes, GORGEOUS. My H was working in Calgary last year, and that's where I first met him in person. He took me to Banff, and gosh... it was simply beautiful.<p>Where I am now is completely different, but still gorgeous. I will NEVER forget this last Fall, we went on a spirit walk through a park in a small town close by (so many charming small towns around here) and this park was a FOREST with a path... and in lanterns lit the way as we were led from one "dead person" to another... famous and infamous people were represented... it was cold, and spooky, and WAAAAAAAY cool. This place ROCKS!

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Does Marshall's wife post here?<p>BTW, Marsha wanted all her posts deleted on GloryB and they deleted some, but not before I copy and pasted all of them.<p>You just never know when that info might come in handy.<p>Cheaters and liars always get caught eventually.<p>Kira

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Kira, I did the same thing. We are indeed naughty!

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huh. interesting.

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Clarkie?<p>What is interesting? I noticed this is your first post and you have been registered here since Nov 2001. Since you have identified yourself as the 'moderator' from the GB site, I was wondering if you could please let us know your thoughts?<p>
L.<p>[ January 26, 2002: Message edited by: Orchid ]</p>

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Hello All,<p>I came across Marsha's plea for help in deleting posts earlier today on gloryb. It peaked my interest, like what is going on? I had seen Marshall's posts here.<p>I was also intrigued by the number of people who read and post on both boards. They refer a lot to MB over there. Z's name was mentioned. I noticed that when I was reading femalesargeant's thread, remember her?<p>I think clarkie was referring to you two copying Marsha's posts ASAP before they could be deleted (since he is a moderator over there).<p>There is an interesting dynamic going on here.<p>Estes

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Yeah, Im also used to being logged in automatically by a "cookie". I posted to this thread at least twice, (really long thoughtful ones too) and neither of them posted cause I wasnt logged in. DOH! ("huh.interesting" was all the strength I could muster on the 3rd go round)<p>and yes, I did register some time ago as to reserve and "protect" my identity here. (not knowing when i would need to post here, but knowing I would eventually) I hate being impostered, I do well enough sticking my foot in my mouth on my own without some whackos help.
OK, this will be post #3, Im gonna save #4 for another day. Good night, God Bless, & hugs, c [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

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Kira & RustyZ<p>Please forward copies of the pasted deleted post to the following address: deleted<p>Yes the wife post! Ty<p>[ January 29, 2002: Message edited by: Grace4ever2u ]<p>[ February 02, 2002: Message edited by: Grace4ever2u ]</p>

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HI, I am little scared.. hope the ow I know is not reading here! let us know if we need to be warned. PLEASE.<p>thanks, honey

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