Why aren't I surprised that as soon as someone realized that I was Marshall's OW posting on TOW boards some of you ran over there like vultures? The reason I wanted to delete my posts is because of some of you over at MB. There wasn't a word in those posts that I wouldn't want Marshall59 to see. <p>Kira and Rusty...how immature of you both. What is the purpose of copying my posts? I would think you have better things to do with your time than sit and copy my posts from TOW boards. Why don't you put your time and energy that you put into copying my posts into rebuilding your marriages? I am NOT your H's OW so why bother? What is the purpose of copying and saving them? Is it so you can show Marshall59? If that is the reason, please don't let me stop you. I wouldn't mind him reading some of those posts at all. <p>Zorweb...leave it to you to make the BIG discovery. Of course, you had to let everyone know. <p>I don't go to the TOW boards and post about you people. There are plenty of H's and W's on MB whose OM/OW are posting on TOW. Do I go running over there and tell them?<p>
My posts were truthfull. They weren't lies, in hope that his W would read them.

BTW...Marshall59 didn't really throw out the birthday gift that I sent him. <p>Marsha

hmmm, could it be true that she doesn't see the irony in calling others "vultures?" [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Marsha77:
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BTW...Marshall59 didn't really throw out the birthday gift that I sent him. <p>Marsha</strong><hr></blockquote><p>
So there! See he loooves me. He might be here trying to save his marriage but he loooves me. Geez, you are a pathetic OB, go find your own man, honey. Loser.

UNBELIEVABLE!!<p>This is NO GAME.....<p>These are people's F**KING lives here.<p>STOP all the stupid game-playing. Marshall's OW, GET THE H&LL OUT OF HIS LIFE! and stay out.<p>What purpose does it serve you to be here? Go away.

Just my humble opinion but Marshall appeared to be a hoax from "his" first post right to the end. Maybe an OW trying to get reaction, maybe just someone with too much time on their hands and too much hatred in their heart.

Marsha77,<p>Had I post to Marshall59 I will get mad too and for some reason I stay away from it. Most of us lend our heart, soul, and mind to others in need. We spend time not to mention burning those cellular's time. I have no doubt given the right cirucumstances, we are even willing to open our house for those in need.<p>I am consider myself new in MB, only about 3.5 months. Your acts and his acts really really put many of us a barrier w/ others in need.<p>I value veteran MB'er that put effort to avoid us here to be a victim again, a victim of scam like this. A whore is too good to describe you.

True enough or the crazy OC, could be just using his name and number in an attempt to woo him(see how alike we are!) Who knows with these loopy OW, I mean anyone that needs to go with emotionally weak men(face it, guys having affairs ain't the pillars of emotional strength) must have enough issues to fill a magazine rack herself.
Come on Marsha are you Marshall too just here to stir the pot and show what big meanies we all are? You OW...man you are some sad [censored] people.

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Marsha77:
<strong>Why aren't I surprised that as soon as someone realized that I was Marshall's OW posting on TOW boards some of you ran over there like vultures? <p>Marsha</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Haha. I haven't been following this but that's funny. Who is the one circling over someone else's marriage and feeding off scraps?

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by fairydust:
<strong><p>Haha. I haven't been following this but that's funny. Who is the one circling over someone else's marriage and feeding off scraps?</strong><hr></blockquote><p>lol! too funny, isn't it?? It's so obvious that I am amazed that it went right over her head when she typed that!

Let me see if I have this straight...<p>Okay, so Marshall 59 comes on and in 6 days he's remorseful and crossing out things that remind him of OW and throwing away presents...<p>Marsha comes on another site and talks about her affair with Marshall and that out of mounds and mounds of people and boards on MB she found her lover...<p>Marshall types on MB like he's been here forever...using the acronyms and even his first post which now is deleted, didn't seem like your normal first post for newcomers...<p>Marsha deletes her post. Marshall starts deleting his post...<p>Marsha writes to MBers in a way that seems likes she knows them, even saying to Zorweb "Zorweb...leave it to you to make the BIG discovery. Of course, you had to let everyone know."<p>I didn't read too much of all this last night but today reading more today I realize I now have had quiet enough of Marsha/Marshall for the rest of my MB life. I refuse to give this person/persons my valuable time anymore.<p>ANNA

Marsha,
You said Marshalls wife was the one who told you about MB. Did you really think she would not still be reading here? <p>It appears many people read both boards.<p>Lora<p>[ January 27, 2002: Message edited by: Lora ]<p>[ January 28, 2002: Message edited by: Lora ]</p>

Marsha77<p>Marsha, my post about the TOW community leaving people here alone was not directed at you alone. Funny… do you have a guilty conscience? There are more from that community here trying to cause trouble then you apparently know. The world is not about you and you alone.<p>Zorweb...leave it to you to make the BIG discovery. Of course, you had to let everyone know.<p>Ouch, oh your indignation makes me feel, oh so very bad… oh oh. You know what? I don’t know you well enough for sleazy remarks to affect me one way or the other. All I know about you is that you are involved with a married man, you are a cheat and a liar, and you are playing some pretty nasty games in your life and here on MB. Gee… I guess your word does not hold much with me.<p>I did not make the ‘BIG discovery”. I simply remarked on what others had said. As for why I brought it up. I, and many others, have lent Marshall an ear and a shoulder. I brought it up so that others will not waste one more moment on an insincere person. It’s that simple.<p>And as it turns out, he was playing games with us… “BTW...Marshall59 didn't really throw out the birthday gift that I sent him.” What kind of a man comes to a board like this and lies? What is his game? Geezz…..<p>You may not be aware of this, as your entire relationship with him is a lie. Perhaps you have become immune to lies… but people get angry when they are lied to. I am sure that you still get angry when you are lied too… though at this point in your life you have no right to get angry at others for doing what you do. You are the vulture honey. You are the one circling around the almost dead corpse of his marriage. You are the one helping him lie to us over here.<p>“Why aren't I surprised that as soon as someone realized that I was Marshall's OW posting on TOW boards some of you ran over there like vultures? The reason I wanted to delete my posts is because of some of you over at MB. There wasn't a word in those posts that I wouldn't want Marshall59 to see.” What makes me think you wanted him to see them?<p>“How immature of you?” Answer that about yourself… you have to spy on this man and his wife?<p>“I don't go to the TOW boards and post about you people. There are plenty of H's and W's on MB whose [who’s] OM/OW are posting on TOW. Do I go running over there and tell them?”<p>Again, my thread was not just about you. There are plenty of people who come here and run back to TOW to tattle. As a matter of fact it seems that MB bashing is one of the sports on the TOW board… yet another mature pursuit. <p>Hey why don’t you tell Marshall to be a man, face us all, and apologize for playing games with us and lying to us? And while he’s at it. Why doesn’t he tell his wife the truth? And why doesn’t he leave her for you? Oh, you’ve heard about cakemen haven’t you?<p>Anna said….”I didn't read too much of all this last night but today reading more today I realize I now have had quiet enough of Marsha/Marshall for the rest of my MB life. I refuse to give this person/persons my valuable time anymore.” You are right. There is a game going on… <p>Bye bye Marsha…<p>[ January 27, 2002: Message edited by: zorweb ]</p>

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by MelodyLane:
<strong><p>lol! too funny, isn't it?? It's so obvious that I am amazed that it went right over her head when she typed that!</strong><hr></blockquote><p>It's funny, but pretty typical in my experience. After all, I had to listen to the exOW cry to me that my H LIED to her (duh) and that he broke her heart and ruined her life (after less than 6 months, guess my life was peachy after living with him for years/being married to him and having him cheat on me!). My conclusion is that many (most) OP are so self absorbed they can't realize how ridiclous they sound.

<p>[ January 27, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]</p>

Okay - so now that it's all out in the open shall we stop the banter? I appreciate this board for the support and advice it gives to me and others and I feel that I can contribute in helping others .When we get into - "hey you from the other board" kind of crap we stoop to a very low level and jeopardize the integrity of this board and the concept of MarriageBuilders. We also lose sight of people who are posting who truly truly need help and advice and support.
I certainly welcome posts from "the other side" and know that a few here have posted on TOW to get some honest feedback. Clarkie from TOW recently posted here and it was and honest and forthright post. I really enjoyed reading what he had to say.
I know that most of us are mature enough not to just start slinging mud at each other. We are here to help ourselves and our marriages and to recover and rebuild from all the damn hurt that comes when our relationships falter.
However, when we get some mudslinging can we all just ignore it, let the mud dry and blow away in the wind?<p>JMHO [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

Point taken, Alberta. Thanks.<p>I'm having a pretty rough day, hence my post above, but no excuses .... I'll delete it. <p>Jo

Resilient - we were posting at the same time, so I hadn't read your post when I did mine.FYI [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

Jo, you should never delete posts... you ALWAYS have something worthwhile to say.<p>I, personally, LOL when I read that.. wish you'd have left it!

I really would hope this ends here. <p>Need I say more?<p>
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