Hi,<p>Things weren't so straight forward as I had thought. I should have known... H still had not made his mind up whether to D or not.
He's been waffling all along ,(thank god I wasn't around>plan B)soon 3 months.
SIL sent me email today. She had talked to H a couple of weeks ago. The first day he didn't have anything positive to say about me, and the next he said some very nice things about me and still thought about trying to make it work etc.
SIL had tried to protect me, so I could move on and not have false hope, so kept it forself, just passed on the negative comments at the time.
H has always been very slow to make major decisions. It's not suprising for me this has been going on for ages.
So I quess I still have a pretty good chance. Don't know...
I am not going to have him around as long as the waffling goes on. So if he calls, should I just say. " Please call me again next week/month/year..., if you still feel the same."
Honestly... if he asked me to move back in with him now, I couldn't. This is where plan B has helped me. Before, just couple of months ago I was ready to have him back immediately, not any more. It's such a relief knowing I can relax (sort of anyway..) and take my time.
I recommend plan B for anyone dealing with a indecisive waffler. And as you see plan B doesn't necessarily mean the end and D.