What do I do when all request regarding school matters to WS is ignored. He was the one to tell me that I must keep him informed about PTA etc...
He wants to be involved in education of DD's.<p>Today, there is a PTA meeting at school which I informed him about but I've had no response from him. This is the third request where he he not responding and he does not pitch for the meeting.<p>9yo is having learning problems at school. He knows about it.<p>I feel I've done my duty and in future I will not inform him anymore.

It is my opinion that they just say they want to be involved because they think that's what they SHOULD say. My x is always whining that he never gets to see our d. When she goes over, he either takes her to the skating rink til 11:30 pm or sends her to her older brother's so he can go chase the married woman he is infatuated with. When he has time off work--a vacation day--he never calls dd to see if he can pick her up. <p>They're just full of baloney.

Gin.
It all adds to the confusion.
My w/s says that the hardest thing about this is that she does not get to be there every day with the kids. But she does not try to get them to stay at her appt. When she takes the out she buys them things and takes them out to dinner . I have allowed her to see the kids at our house and thats fine with her but still no effort to get the kids to stay at her place . Its mo that they trust where the kids are at and they can enjoy there new chosen life style w/o the hassel . They give enough say enough just to show that they are conserned. Gosh how would it look if they say I love my kids but I have other concerns now.
My advice is keep them informed of everything , treat them with respect. Be the best you can be with your kids. Handle the every day problems as if you dont have help and in time you will get to the point that you dont need help . I know I did .Its tough but you will get there .
Jerry