I know most of you, if not all, have heard or seen the following before. BUT, I thought that it might add a little ray of hope to everyone.<p>"When the night has been too lonely,
and the road has been too long,
and you think that love is only for
the lucky and the strong,
just remember,
in the winter,
far beneath the bitter snow,
lies the seed that with the sun's love
in the spring becomes the rose."<p>-Lyrics by Amanda McBroom<p>I think that we can say that the bitter smow resembles the OP and the fog and that the seed is our Plan A and the rose is our marriage.<p>Lets all fight hard to make sure our roses bloom this spring.