I told my wife, of and affair that she new about, that I never have sexual relations with that woman. Which was the true.
How ever I had three other affair that involve sex, and I told her that I have never sleep with another woman.
I have to do this other wise she will be devastated.
I consulted my confessor, and he agree with me and gave absolution.
I have not have any other affair for twenty years, and I dont plan too.
What is your opinion.
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