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How would you explain the situation...<p>WH left me while I was pregnant with our daughter.<p>I say he left both of us, but he says he only left me and i happened to get our daughter by default. How does that work?<p>AH
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A child is not born and raised out of default, but from TWO people being together. Just because he left you does not mean he can not have a relationship with his daughter. Maybe he just does not want the responsibility, and is using that to justify himself. Im sorry, but right now I just think men are crazy. He just seems like another example!!(no offense to the good men out there [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]
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Angelheart,
Is this a real estate deal gone bad, or a precious child formed in the image of God? Of course he left both of you, and he knows it!
He fathered this child and does not want to take the responsibility of being a husband AND father. He wants to show off the baby by taking her to OW's house, but at the same time tells you that she's not really his responsibility. I am so very sorry for what you are going through. I hope that you have support from family, friends, church...I will pray for you and your baby. Ladysing
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