I felt the need to respond to your post on my other thread. Yes I am the WS and yes I agree with you that there is NEVER a good reason and no reason is EVER good enough. I was wrong and I know it and I live with the guilt of it each and every day of my life. There are times I look into my mirror and I can't stand to see myself for what I am because of what I did.<p>I did plan. You are right. This didn't happen in just weeks or months. I Met Richard in March of 1997 and we met in person a year later. It was an EA for probably 8 or 10 months before the real life meeting.<p>And finally my H isn't in the dark about our broken marriage. I have told him so many times in so many ways. He knows but he doesn't choose to fix it.<p>I respect your opinions and everyone else's and I thank you for your input. I didn't mean to sound flippant in answering, I just deal with it differently and I shut off my emotons and it comes across as cold here I guess. Thanks again, I do appreciate your words of advice more than you know.<p>Peace J