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STBSA,<p>I just finished reading your last thread on your post. I am concerned for you, are you okay? Please post back to us so we know how you are. I worry.<p>Concerned, Jo<p>[ February 07, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]</p>
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I am glad I'm not overreacting here, at least to someone else. Thank you for posting. Would there be something we could do? Anyone know of anything we could do to check on her? When was the last time she posted? 12pm?
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Please keep this up on the board so that it can clearly be seen. I have to go now. I will check in later to see that stbsa is okay. [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]
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just keeping this "up on the board"
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It should be possible for the MB folks to track down where she is connecting from isnt it? You can track the IP and get an idea of the ISP if there is one and maybe they can call them? I hope she is ok. Noone is worth you life. Sucide is NOT the answer for any of this.
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May I make a suggestion?<p>I have asked SEVERAL TIMES for a protocol (or procedure) for suicide fears be written by the Harley's.<p>This is not the first time, nor will it be the last unfortunately, that we have feared for the life of a hurting member.<p>I have written Harley, but haven't heard back. Would everyone please write him and ask also? I frankly am kind of afraid to say this because I'm sure there is nothing that can be done... my understanding is that IP#s can be found, but not phone numbers or addresses. In the past we looked through posts until we found some identifying information and called the police in the area. But without a real name or anything, it's hard.<p>Anyway, what do you all think??
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How do you reach Dr. Harley?
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Worried and Praying hard, I will take the time to search and call my friend who is Microsoft Certified and who can work a computer like crazy and see if he can help. Pray hard everyone.
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I sent my email to an address I got long ago, but I think it's still good:<p> sharley@marriagebuilders.com <p>Again, I hesitate to suggest this, since I know he's busy and legally, I bet nothing can be done -- in fact, I think I read that another time I asked about it on the forums.<p>There is the admin email above on the general forums page also, tho I don't know if it would be appropriate to send this kind of request there:<p> admin@marriagebuilders.com <p>I don't mean to put anyone in jeopardy... but I take suicide talk VERY SERIOUSLY!! I have a son who at 8 years old tried to hang himself -- so it's very close to my heart!!
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When talking about suicide or potential suicides, it is always best to err on the side of caution. My Prayers go with...
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Legally there is something we can do. I am going to go talk to my neighbor to see. I will be back in about 20. Keep praying
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I spoke to my neighbor, she deals with social services and suicide things alot. She said the only thing that she could think of was to somhow notify the web master, to notify authorities who may be able to find STBSA with their recources. Sorry I wish I could do more...I will continue to pray...Lets keep bumping this!
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I just sent an email to the webmaster, found under "Contact Us" on the home page.
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STBSA just posted under "My wife´s chats - excerpts". I just wanted to let all of you know...
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Thank you, yes, I noticed one of her posts when I first logged on.
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Yes Im ok. This isnt the strongest Ive felt in years, but I guess I have no choice but to deal with it.<p>I dont know why he came back this morning. He said he thought I would need him today. Well I needed last night and so many nights before and he wasnt there for me then. <p>I need to stop being a fool and a sucker and be strong for myself and my son. To hell with him, he has the support of his Parents, he wnt get it from me anymore
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I just went back and read what you have been writing. Plz dont worry about me. Like I sd, I wl get thru this. I am not serioulsy considering hurting myself for a minute. I have far too much to lose.
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