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I visted my sister for a few days to "clear my head" and boy what a difference. WH and 2 year old S stayed at home and I left. WH was REALLY scared that I would not come home...cried and wanted me to tell him before I left that I would come back. I was in a really bad place before I left, so all I could say was "I can't make any promises, but I start my new job on Tuesday, so of course I had to come back." Just the three hour drive cleared my head and made my path clear...what is important to me and what I need to do to get what I want. WH textmsged and called eachother throughout the weekend and he said he missed me horribly and wasn't sleeping well. On Saturday I glammed myself up and drove all the way (4 hours) to WH work to pick him up (OW has been transferred). WH had no idea since I was supposed to be at my sisters until Sunday. We were txting eachother all day and once I got there I sent him a message to come up front. You should have seen the smile on his face. He was SO happy that I came home for him. He kept telling me over and over how beautiful I looked. So of course we had to stop off at home for a little fun before we picked up our S from the sitters.<p>Also WH opened up about somethings that he has been holding in for years and years....a major breakthrough with opening up about intimate feelings (death of father figure). I honestly see how lost and sad he is inside. I think I definitely owe it to us and him to support him as he goes through IC to help him with these issues. I hope to get IC as well to help me through this whole ordeal. I am once again imagining the OW and WH having a sex life like me and WH....which isn't even possible. They didn't even know eachother long enough to have our kind of sex life! But at the same time I keep imagining her experiencing what we've been doing lately and it pisses me off!!! I'm trying that STOP SIGN image and switching my thoughts to something else to get over this.
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weRtrying,
Sounds good! Maybe the road is getting clearer for you and your H!
Brw [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]
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