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Ok, this is another of my not quite famous non-productive stupid threads. *disclaimer: 1) I do not sanction any REAL violence in any way shape or form. 2)I COMPLETELY understand that the OM is not completely at fault. 3)I take *full* blame for my faults and the fact that I had a good part in causing the M to be vulnerable to an A in the first place. 4) I am sure my wife's OM is a decent productive member of society.<p>That said, despite the fact that the Bible says to "turn the other cheek" I can't give the OM my other wife since I dont have another.<p>So tell me BS' despite all the grief, guilt, anger and stress wouldnt it feel soo DARN good to beat the living stuffing out of the OP while calling them a lying cheating homewrecking spouse stealing sonofab*tch?!?!<p> We can be rational and caring in other threads, this is a VENT. What would YOU like to do or say to him/her?<p>[ February 11, 2002: Message edited by: HangingIn ]</p>
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I'd like to b*tch slap her! [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Ok really, I'd like HER to have the images of what WH & I did last night floating around in HER head at all hours of the night and day (complete with audio too!)<p>I'd like her to hear the conversations me and WH have regarding the type of person SHE is (but of course not hear the conversations about what kind of people WE are!)<p>I would like to tell her off too...have a lot of "fantasies" about bumping into her and telling her EXACTLY what I think of her! I have her cell number and e-mail, but won't give her the satisfaction of ME being a b*tch or anything but a polite, productive, loving human being! That sure makes me a lot better than HER!<p>THat was fun! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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ROFL... I like the disclaimers [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] .<p>ummmm.... yes, it would feel good. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>I wish the "Infidelity Fairie" would cast a spell and cause OW to explode from a size 2 to 32, grow ugly warts all over her body, and all her hair to fall out. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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weRtrying... Ooo good point, mental/emotional anguish definately hurts more than a good pummeling. <p>Faith1... Hmm I didnt know there was an infidelity fairy... [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] You get points for creativity [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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I would wish OW would mind meld with me and know my angish and hurt. That she would know the truth of all that has happened, know all the lies my x-H told to both of us, know what it feels like to have a preditor invade your marriage, know what it feels like to have someone learn the most private things about you thru your H and use that info to hurt you in the most profound and attacking way.<p>I know this was supposed to be fun, I'm just in a funk today AGAIN.<p>Jo
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drawn and quartered and dragged through the village square...<p>have my H tell her that I am his 'real' princess and she is a fraud...<p>okay.... well I can dream...<p>Cali
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Cali ... OUCH!<p>I never knew what drawn and quartered was until I saw "Brave Heart" ....<p>That, and disenboweled (sp) .... Whoa! So glad I didn't live in that era. <p>Jo<p>BTW: Been reading your threads on GloryB. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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I would like the OW to feel the pain that she has caused the children in the situation, mine and hers. That has got to be the worst when you are little, you have no idea how to express all of the icky feelings inside...then I would like OW to feel all of my pain X2.<p>But that isn't very Godly of me now is it?
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What would YOU like to do or say to him/her?<p>[ February 11, 2002: Message edited by: HangingIn ][/QB][/QUOTE]<p> This goes in cycles. In the beginning I wanted to tear her to pieces. Then my fantasies were more towards seeing her in a store and calling her a name, or spitting on her or something. Or just walking up and giving her one good slap and walking away. I never would have done any of that of course. As time has gone on it is much more passive. Now I just wish that she would see us out somewhere, me looking fabulous with his arm around me, with our 2 beautiful babies. That would burn her up more than anything I ever could have fantasized doing to her. I also of course hope that she falls madly in love, gets married, gets cheated on and that the OW treats her EXACTLY how she treated me.
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Resilient ... Sorry about your bad mood. I guess sometimes its hard to make light of these things but don't forget to smile once and a while. <p>Would it make you in a worse mood if I asked if you are a trekkie? mind meld? Silly Trekkie [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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All.. Too bad God doesnt "smite" peopel as much as he used to. I think the OP could use a good plague or two also.
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Plauges...Plauges are good! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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hmmmmmm.... Drawn and quartered... I like that... you got me thinkin now!!! [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img]
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I would just love to ring OW and tell her the truth, that H has been sleeping with me and taking me out right up to last week. I want her to feel sick to the stomach and in so much pain she has nowhere to turn!!!<p>I have both her cell phone and home phone, but i wont lower myself to ring her, as much as i would love to. The truth always has a habit of coming out and biting people in the bum so just maybe one day she will find out that H has cheated on her from the start. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]
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yeah... guess you can tell I taught Medieval History for a few years... love that drawn and quartered stuff.... few centuries have tortured people so well...<p>Resilient... I kinda posted on the spur of the moment... ya know... then got sucked in by a really bitter OW or two... I think I am holding my own... and a contingent have even welcomed me...<p>Cali
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I don't believe in violence, and I would never attempt to physically injure another person. Furthermore, I refuse to show any anger toward OM, as he's not worth it, and I feel I'm above it. HOWEVER...<p>One of the best night's sleep that I've had over the past 6 months was the night I dreamed that I came home and found the OM in my house. Funny how dreams work... conveniently, I just happened to have a baseball bat in my hands at the time! [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] I listened to a few seconds of his ranting/accusing/pleading, then-- I shattered both of his kneecaps.<p>The next morning I awoke feeling genuinely content and well-rested. Am I a bad person?
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Heck NO. See there is a difference between those thoughts in your head (or typed out here in a vent) AND DOING that action. <p>Thinking... Doing. BIG difference.<p>for instance. one example that comes to mind; *thinking* about being attacted to someone other than your spouse and actually *HAVING* an affair.
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Oh dear, you've got me going now.... This is not something I could actually DO to the OW, but something I'd like to happen to her. I'd love it if she became ill with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (like I have) and have her beloved abandon her. I'd like her to be unable to work, be poor, live in a dump and suffer alone. Am I vindictive or what! In reality I pray that she'll become a Christian. <p>And another favourite fantasy is that I show up with some gorgeous hunk that adores me, who ignores her totally in favour of me. She'd be wondering how someone as awful as me could get such a man, while she's stuck with my husband... Of course my husband then decides I'm the better woman and pleads for me to come back to him. <p>Heh, I feel so much better now. :-)<p>Evensong
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Great posts so far......!!!!! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>I would like the OW to feel the pain that my boys and I have been feeling for 6 months now. The hurt, the fear of the unknown....you name it all of it...of course...ten times worde than me.<p>Now for the physical side of it.....I would rally love to just beat the living CR*P out of her....and I have never (and would never) done anything like that before in my life.<p>Thanks for the "fun" post!
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I posted this once, but still I bet a custom made OM/OW punching bag would be a hot seller. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] OR voodoo dolls.. hmm theres an idea.. [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img] grrr poke poke poke!<p>Peacefully yours,
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