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As a former OW.......I can say YES, I DEFINITELY thought about my xMM's wife. I felt a tremendous amount of guilt over it....BUT the pain I felt when I'd try to end the affair was worse than the guilt. I guess you could say the guilt was the lesser of two evils. I always went back. <p>The guilt did start to subside a bit the more he told me about her and the more things he showed me that she had written ... things like she felt trapped in their marriage because of the children....or that she had gone back to work incase she decided to leave him. The guilt was still there because I know I had a part in their marriage getting worse but it did lessen a bit the longer I was there.<p>Hope that answers your question......<p>hootie
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Thank you for all of your replies...I appreciate the insight...you are so right Honey...It does go G to G. I hope that the cycle stops here. KS, I am prayin'm for ya, and good luck with the new apt.
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