Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 2 1 2
#976205 02/18/02 12:47 PM
Joined: Feb 2000
Posts: 98
A
Member
Member
A Offline
Joined: Feb 2000
Posts: 98
As a former OW.......I can say YES, I DEFINITELY thought about my xMM's wife. I felt a tremendous amount of guilt over it....BUT the pain I felt when I'd try to end the affair was worse than the guilt. I guess you could say the guilt was the lesser of two evils. I always went back. <p>The guilt did start to subside a bit the more he told me about her and the more things he showed me that she had written ... things like she felt trapped in their marriage because of the children....or that she had gone back to work incase she decided to leave him. The guilt was still there because I know I had a part in their marriage getting worse but it did lessen a bit the longer I was there.<p>Hope that answers your question......<p>hootie

#976206 02/19/02 01:17 AM
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 513
F
Member
Member
F Offline
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 513
Thank you for all of your replies...I appreciate the insight...you are so right Honey...It does go G to G. I hope that the cycle stops here. KS, I am prayin'm for ya, and good luck with the new apt.

Page 2 of 2 1 2

Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 725 guests, and 68 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Zion9038xe, renki, Gocroswell, Allen Inverson, Logan bauer
72,026 Registered Users
Latest Posts
How important is it to get the whole story?
by leemc - 07/18/25 10:58 AM
Following Ex-Wifes Nursing Schedule?
by Roger Beach - 07/16/25 04:21 AM
My wife wants a separation
by Roger Beach - 07/16/25 04:20 AM
Spying husband arrested
by coooper - 06/24/25 09:19 AM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,624
Posts2,323,518
Members72,026
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 8.0.0