<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>I'm very new to this site and I've never posted anything anywhere ever. So I hope this is how it goes.<p>Anyway, I don't know your situation totally but it sounds similar to mine. Right now I'm a nervous wreck wondering where my husband is.<p>This morning he asked me to iron an outfit for him to wear today (not his work uniform) Immediately I got a horrible feeling that he is going to spend Valentines day with the other woman. He sensed my horror and tried to assure me that he was doing something special for me but I feel in my heart that he's going to spend the day with her and the night with me, I just feel it! He said he was going to work with that outfit on...I don't believe it one bit. I called his job and sure enough he's not in today. Now he isn't answering his cell phone. I just know he's with her right now and it's driving me crazy. You see he's never admitted to having an affair but I do a lot of investigating and I find out things.<p>Right now I'm just very upset and I want to just call it quits but I still want it to work. Somebody help me!
<hr></blockquote><p>I hope you don't mind me reposting this... I didn't want your first post to get buried....<p>Welcome to MB.<p>Read all that you can of the Basic Concepts on this website. The Harleys' books, "Surviving an Affair," His Needs/Her Needs, and "LoveBusters" are all very helpful and almost 'required' reading.<p>You will find a General Welcome and definitions of all our acronyms and abbreviations in the "Just Found Out" forum.<p>Take it one day at a time. We've all been where you are and you will get stronger...<p>Cali
