I dont take stock in those personality tests on webpages they are all silly.. but it is wierd a friend had me do one today and it came up with a profile 100% right on. spoooky<p>If you need a distraction take a look at it..<p>Here is what it came up with for me. (but then again I guess it is general enough to describe many of us...)<p>Everyone feels despondent at times ... and you are no exception. You are feeling so depressed because it seems that everything that could go wrong has gone wrong and you don't quite know which way to turn. So like the proverbial ostrich - you are trying to bury your head in the sand ... But that won't work. You have to face reality .....<p>You are a leader and possibly at this tine in a position of authority. But you are experiencing problems ... You are not quite sure how to handle the present situation .. . <p>Being a very proud individual you tend to hold yourself aloof...pretending that you are stoical...indifferent to pain and pleasure...but this is not so, for in truth you are an extremely emotional individual, one that may make a hasty decision...and perhaps regret it at leisure. It is time now to break the bond of detachment and be the "you" that you would like to be, give vent to your emotions and enjoy yourself.<p>Your stress and anxiety are a result of an emotional disappointment. It could well be that the emotional relationship is no longer running smoothly ... and you have come to the end of your tether. On the one hand you would like to free yourself from this relationship altogether,yet, on the other hand you don't want to lose anything nor risk the uncertainty of throwing away something ... something that's precious, something that could be the "Real Thing" Perhaps for the first time in your life you really don't know which way to go - and it is these contradictory emotions that are causing you the untold stress. You are pretending to the world that you don't care but even this air of pretence is causing you much heartache. <p>At this time you don't particularly like yourself. Everything that you have tried to do seems to have gone wrong. This makes you feel that there is no point in trying to start again. Apart from being stressed and tense, you are angry with yourself and have unadmitted self-contempt. Your refusal to admit that you and you alone is the basic cause of your problems, and this leads to you adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude. If you take stock of yourself.... smile a little.. and let go ... everything will turn out OK. Have you not heard of the cliche..Smile and the World smiles with you - Cry and you cry alone! <p>*****
HAHA i did it again and it gave me something new:
You are working extremely hard trying to improve your image. You need for those people in positions that matter to recognise your potential and to acknowledge you.<p>sounds like plan A [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
Anyhow if you are bored check it out:
http://www.colorgenics.com/<p>
***NOTE: This is just for silly (but interesting) fun. Please dont get disccouraged or follow any stupid advice from it.<p>[ February 15, 2002: Message edited by: HangingIn ]</p>

OK, mine scares the hell out of me:<p>Life for some time now has been somewhat depressing ... and you feel "under the weather". You are looking for a means by which you can escape from all the pressures of everyday life. But you must remember that the "Past does not equal "Tomorrow". You are seeking a way to escape from all the trials and tribulations that oppress you at this time .. But at least you haven't given up .... If one pattern of behaviour doesn't seem to work ... then you'll change it for another.... <p>You like the better things in life. You are sensuous and emotional. You are a follower of the Arts ... and you seek an environment that will give you the fulfilment to the senses that you need.<p>It's the old old story ... I am misunderstood ... my partner, (be it in your private life or in business) just doesn't understand me and YOU also believe at this time that you are being completely MISUNDERSTOOD by one and all. It then obviously follows that you naturally feel inhibited and not appreciated... It is perhaps because of this belief that you feel compelled to stand back and let the rest of the world go by.......As for developing a firm relationship ... Inwardly, deep down in your subconscious mind you are wary of even trying to get close to another person because you feel that, if you open up your heart and feelings ... you are sure to get hurt. But since you are living in a society where close relationships are the norm ... you feel that there is that need to conform.. but any close relationships of any magnitude that you may have tried in the past have unfortunately left you without any sense of emotional involvement.<p>*****THIS IS WHAT SCARES ME*****You are feeling trapped by the situation as it stands at this time and what is more, you feel powerless to remedy it. You are stressful, angry and disgruntled. You feel that everything that you try to do to change the situation is thwarted and your hopes and aspirations all seem to be receding into the ever distant future.You have reached the state where you now doubt whether your dreams will ever be achieved... and this is not only causing mental stress, but heartache. You need to get away from it all ... You need to have time to think ... to recuperate ... to be able to make your own decisions.<p>You are anxious about all the limitations to which you are subjected to at this time.... You feel that you are not valued for what or who you are. You need OUT. So why procrastinate any longer .... MOVE!

ACK... Sorry. hmm maybe I'll remove the link. anyone else have a GOOD one?<p>maybe I should preface it as purely for entertainment purposes only...
Kind of like those stupid horoscopes, a person is likely to read them and find SOME way to identify with them depending on their mood or however the want to be understood.<p>[ February 15, 2002: Message edited by: HangingIn ]</p>

Here is mine and it's me to a T wow<p>You are longing for some love and affection at this time ... not that you have been deprived of tender loving care ... but there are times when everyone needs to try something new or to go "somewhere" else to perhaps experience that little extra "understanding" ... <p>Now there are many things in life that you require as being essential to your well-being ... but try as you may - something always seems to be getting in your way .... a word of advice .... "keep trying" and you may be pleasantly surprised to see just how matters turn out - .<p>At times one is burdened with more than ones fair share of problems .. and this would appear to be your situation at present. But you are adamant-you know what you wish to achieve- ...and by giving a little...and taking a little..you may well find that the realization of your dreams could well become a reality <p>You are holding back. You need to find friends in whom you can trust and once they have proved themselves beyond all possible doubt you will be prepared to give them your all ... The existing situation is not of your liking. You have an unsatisfied need for mental stimulation with others whose standards are as high as your own. Trying to control your instincts the way you do restricts your ability to open up to others ... and the way you feel at this time is suggestive of "total surrender". This is not to your liking as you consider such thoughts as weaknesses that need to be overcome; You feel that only by control, controlling your innermost thoughts, are you able can you maintain your air of superiority. You want to be admired for yourself alone and not for what you can do or for what you may have done. In essence "you need to be needed" ... and at the same time... .."you need to need".<p>You are greatly impressed by individuality and have interest in people who have outstanding qualities. You try to imitate those people that you admire and their characteristics, hoping that you will be able to display similar qualities in your own personality.

Did mine again, clicking really fast without even thinking...I want a HAPPY one darnit [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] !<p>You are striving for a life full of activity and experience, and perhaps what is even more, an environment where you would be able to forge a close bond with a person who can offer full emotional fulfilment. <p>For some time now you may have been subjected to considerable physical illness and or emotional distress. This may have taken a severe toll and you feel both physically and mentally worn out. Your self esteem has been reduced and you now need a peaceful environment which will permit you to effect full recovery.<p>You need a friend - a close friend ... and you are willing to become emotionally involved with the right person, but you are very demanding and particular in your choice of partners. You are constantly looking for reassurance .. and it is perhaps because of this that you tend to be some-what argumentative, but you try to hold back - careful to avoid open conflict since this might reduce your chances of prospects of realising your hopes of establishing a warm caring relationship.<p>Nobody seems to understand you at this moment ... for everything you suggest or do seems to be taken up the wrong way. All of this misunderstanding- is leading to anxiety and stress.The situation naturally is not as you would like it to be .. you feel that you are being treated most unfairly and that trust, affection and understanding are being withheld from you and that you are being treated with a demeaning lack of consideration. You consider yourself being denied the appreciation essential to your well being and self-esteem and that there is nothing you can do about it. You feel that whatever you try to do to change the situation... you are getting nowhere fast. You would really like to get away from it all but can't find the energy or the strength of mind to make the necessary decision.<p>The tensions that you are trying to cope with are a result of conditions which are really beyond your control. As a consequence of this almost impossible situation and not being able to get your own way, you are subjected to frustration and almost ungovernable anger. You are trying to remedy the situation.. but the stress that you are experiencing is making the situation even worse... You feel so inadequate that you are not quite sure which way to turn. A good suggestion would to be to try to relieve the stress and anxiety by participating in some very active physical activity which will relieve your tension.

WeR trying...
That sounds better! Well its not BAD at least.

Here is mine: <p>You work hard ...seeking success. You are self-sufficient and in spite of all the trials and tribulations that have beset you in the past - you carry on regardless... You are one to be admired because you pursue your objectives single-mindedly and with initiative. You know that you can "do it" and what is more - you will .. without necessarily being dependent upon the goodwill of others.. <p>All of your dreams and hopes have not materialised ..and consequently you are unsure of which way to go. This uncertainty has led to considerable stress, but you have sufficient "strength of mind" to overcome this state of affairs .. but it will take some time .. .<p>We are all conditioned by our environment...and as such we respond to peoples perception of ourselves...but you feel that conditions are not right at this time...You are experiencing certain reservations that are precluding you to develop a particular relationship, business-wise or personal, that is being offered...It is 'make your mind up time'...The decision is all yours... but whatever decision you make...it will be the right one.<p>You feel that you must have co-operation from those close to you before the existing stressful situation can be improved. You feel that no-one understands you and this lack of understanding and appreciation makes you feel completely isolated. You need that feeling of security and would like to get away from what you now consider depressing shackles .. You have that need to re-establish your own individuality. But your sensual self-restraint makes it difficult for you to let go ... to open up..., but the way that you are feeling at this time makes you feel that "Enough is enough" and you are prepared to give in ... This disturbs you as you feel that this attitude is an obvious sign of weakness .. an attitude to be overcome and so in spite of this situation you feel that in order to assert your own individuality you need to continue to practice self-restraint.<p>You need to be respected as an exceptional individual. This is the only way that you can hope to achieve the status that you wish to achieve. You set yourself very high standards ... and come what may ... you abide by them.

Sounds about right to me. At least at this point in my life in is on target.<p>*********************
You are a very sensitive person and you try hard - (perhaps a little too hard) - to make
favourable impressions and to be recognised by your peers... But you have that inherent need
to feel appreciated and admired. You are easily hurt if all of your endeavours go by
unappreciated or not acknowledged. stop trying so hard <p> All of your dreams and hopes have not materialised ..and consequently you are unsure of
which way to go. This uncertainty has led to considerable stress, but you have sufficient
"strength of mind" to overcome this state of affairs .. but it will take some time .. .<p> You give the impression that you are a self-sufficient individual...pretending that you are
stoical...indifferent, that is to pain or pleasure. But this is not so...for in truth you are an
extremely emotional person, one that may make hasty decisions...and perhaps repent in
leisure. It is time now perhaps to break the bond of detachment and become the real "you".
The you that you would like to be. ...<p> The unwanted situation in which you presently find yourself is causing you considerable
stress and frustration ....and your feeling is that whatever you try to do to remedy this is to no
avail... You feel trapped. You want to get away from it all as you feel that you are banging
your head against a brick wall - getting nowhere. You have turned your aggression inwards ...
and you are furious with yourself for not being able to achieve your goals. You need to go
away, somewhere where there are less restrictions and where you can be free to make your
own decisions.<p> Overwork ... be it mental stress ... or physical strain, you are completely worn out and this
depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation. You feel disappointed
with your obvious lack of energy and powerless to do anything about it.You are angry with
yourself and this frustration shows. You are contradictory and argumentative and feel
helpless to change the situation at this time. Take a break ... even if it is only for a few days
... allow yourself to breath ... to unwind ... You'll feel much better for it... Then trust and let
go.<p>***************<p>jd<p>[ February 15, 2002: Message edited by: jdmac1 ]</p>

HangingIn,<p>Wow, where the heck you find this site. I am not looking for a good or bad but straight talk. Thanks for the post.
_________________________________________________<p>Is it that you are working - or even playing too hard? because it would seem that you are experiencing a great deal of pent-up up emotion at this time which could possibly take effect and lead to irrational behaviour ... ... .<p>You are very self-sufficient and methodical. You presume to know where you are going.. but need to find a person who will recognise the way you are ... not be too demanding and who is, as they say in Italy, "Simpatico".<p>You wear your heart on your sleeve ... and since you are an emotional person you are apt to give your all ... heart and soul ... to all those that show you a little affection ... but take care... it would appear that you have been extremely hurt in the past...and you keep leaving yourself wide open for punishment..<p>For some time now your hopes and expectations have been denied...and because of this you are becoming withdrawn and introverted.Continual disappointment has manifested itself in you becoming both suspicious and restrained...you have become withdrawn from others and have receded more and more into yourself. You seem to have lost your innate enthusiasm and imaginative nature, for fear that you may be carried away by it only to find that you are wasting your time. You are loath to trust people as in the past your trust has been misplaced. You seem to be keeping yourself cautiously aloof from others. At this moment in time your attitude is to trust no-body...until they can prove themselves to you.<p>At this time you don't particularly like yourself. Everything that you have tried to do seems to have gone wrong. This makes you feel that there is no point in trying to start again. Apart from being stressed and tense, you are angry with yourself and have unadmitted self-contempt. Your refusal to admit that you and you alone is the basic cause of your problems, and this leads to you adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude. If you take stock of yourself.... smile a little.. and let go ... everything will turn out OK. Have you not heard of the cliche..Smile and the World smiles with you - Cry and you cry alone!
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Wierd how a LOT of the profiles seem right on for BS' I wonder what it would say for someone with less stress.

Here's mine, almost dead on.
Much of the time you are preoccupied with things of an intensely exciting nature. You need stimulation and variation with all matters pertaining to your life... You want to be regarded as an exciting and interesting personality being able to charm and influence others. You use powerful strategies with predictable outcomes so as to avoid endangering your chances of success or undermining other peoples confidence in you. <p>You are working extremely hard - perhaps even over and beyond the call of duty. You are preparing for the future and therefore trying to build a firm trouble free foundation upon which you may base all of your dreams and aspirations.<p>You are a very choosy person .. demanding and exacting in your emotional demands and very particular in your choice of partner. You are self-sufficient and as a result of this overbearing nature you find it difficult to establish any depth of deep physical or mental involvement with members of the opposite sex..<p>You are being unduly influenced by the situation that is all around you. You do not like the feeling of loneliness and whatever it is that seems to separate you from others. You know that life can be wonderful and you are anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to live it to the full. You therefore resent any restriction or limitations that are being imposed on you and you insist on going it alone.<p>You don't like authority and you rebel against all forms of limitation. You are your own person and you intend to stay that way .. and to get on in the world simply by your hard work and determination.

Here's H's
You have always longed for tenderness, love and a sensitivity of feeling into which you would like to blend. You are a very gentle warm person and responsive to "All things bright and beautiful". This personifies a caring person... A person who "needs" and indeed "needs to be needed". <p>Of late, everything seems to be going so slowly .... far slower than you anticipated and this is causing you much anxiety and frustration. It would appear that there is little you can do about the series of events that now seem to be taking place ..... In spite of the fact that you feel like "giving up"...don't...Take a deep breath and start over again and you will find that eventually the expression "All's well that ends well" will have an extra special meaning for you <p>All the problems that you have been experiencing of late seem to have become a part of your life and there is little that can be done to change the situation. Your emotions run high. But even though you feel as if at times you are about to burst... this situation will pass. Try to release your pent-up emotions by participating in some extra physical activities ... like running.. swimming, whatever.There must be some favourite past time, not necessarily strenuous, that can help you to relax.<p>You are being unduly influenced by the situation that is all around you. You do not like the feeling of loneliness and whatever it is that seems to separate you from others. You know that life can be wonderful and you are anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to live it to the full. You therefore resent any restriction or limitations that are being imposed on you and you insist on going it alone.<p>You wish to be left in peace... no more conflict and no more differences of opinion ... In fact you just don't want to be involved in any arguments of any shape or form ... All you want is for "them" to get on with it - and to leave you alone..