Oops, sorry. I haven't been on for a while and missed your callout.<p>I'm doing fine. I'm just living my life, and trying to work things out for myself. W and I still talk and see each other occasionally. She's had some nice things to say of late...well, not nice, but good to hear. She's "back to being confused." Her therapist has told her that she has weak boundaries and needs to sort those out before she can consider anything else out. She's been advised to just be alone, without me OR her boyfriend.<p>I disagree with that terribly, but I have no control over what advice she chooses to follow.<p>To me, it would seem that
I should be there to help her through any personal problems that she has. I vowed to her, to her family, to myself, and to God that I would be her rock. And though I've failed at that miserably over the last several years, I've finally got myself straightened out and want to be there for her.....but that's just not going to happen, I guess.<p>No matter, I feel the best that I have about myself in years. I'm finding my self-love again, and I'm anxiously awaiting Spring so I can get back into my outside activities.<p>W is a bit upset that I've posted so many details here, but again, I can't control her reactions. I respect her wishes, but at the same time, I have to do what's right for ME, and that means telling you all the whole story so I can work through it. She has actually registered her on MB, but it was because she was angry at something that I'd posted, and was going to reply with spit and vinegar. I don't know if she actually HAS posted anything, but I do hope she does. I KNOW that there are some caring, level headed people here that might just be able to help her sort some things out. <p>We'll see.<p>In the meantime, I'm still reading the boards, posting occasionally, and am conversing "off-line" with several of you.<p>Thank you all SO much for the support you've provided me over the last four months!<p>P.S. MoM (and others), just ignore him. I wanted terribly to jump in on their thread in DD, but really, what good would it do? none. The only thing we can do is to support her, and pray for her.<p>Take care all.
Kev
