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#977989 02/19/02 06:47 PM
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Sorry to sound rude....or to not agree with your thinking.....but your posts are getting more and more condescending.....not just towards BR....but others as well.
You talk about being offended in one of your posts and now what do you do in return......you become offensive yourself.
I said nothing in defense of no one....I offered you a little history of my own and shared with you how sometimes we need to have "tough love" applied to us.<p>
<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> i do not know what the BIG DEAL is with disagreeing with BR... <hr></blockquote><p>There is no "Big Deal" with you disagreeing with BR. The big deal is that you have consistently brought and continue to bring it back up....and in other posts where the subject doesn't need to be brought up at all.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> I wanted to get it out...that some of the advise was not good, and all I have gotten by a lot of what I guess are friends... are opinionated responses... not at all looking at what I pointed out... <hr></blockquote><p>I think that it has been pointed out that we ourselves have been in your shoes and now that we are at a point where we can look back....we can see that it was a good swift kick in the butt for us. It works for some....not for others.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> I dare say, some of you old timers have gotten a little stuck, and this is not where the principles of mb lie... some of you are not qualified to give advise...who is? Maybe the harley's if they were posting... especially demand that your advise be followed- <hr></blockquote><p>Are you not "stuck" in the position you are in now? We all get stuck......that is why we come here. We choose to either ask for advice or we just look around just read.
None of us are qualified to give advice....so why have you asked for our advice?<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> someones mom, i see they are looking at running you off too, quite sad... I am trying to stay, but it looks that since I rocked the boat and said what I thought the old clubbies are blackballing my opinion that BR may not be a GOD?? <hr></blockquote><p>NOBODY said anything about running anyone off.
You did not rock the boat....you are not the first and most assuredly won't be the last person to disagree with someone else on this board. Some people take things too personally....some people just let it rool off of them.<p>BR is definatley not a GOD....but I do respect her opinion.....why?
Because she is a succes story....and if she has anything to offer me in helping me work on my marriage then I would gladly let her tell me what mistakes I am making....whether she has to tell me I'm being spoiled or not...she has....and I know that she would continue to do so if asked.<p>Why did I post this?<p>Because I'm starting to find your posts offensive personally....since I've posted responses to you.....and.....quite frankly....I don't think you have taken ahold of the whole MB concept entirely. That is my opinion only.<p>I'm not asking or telling you take my advice.....I tell this to everyone.....everything I say is based on my own experience and may do nothing for you. <p>I do think you are taking this a little too far.....my own opinion again.

#977990 02/19/02 07:03 PM
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Run off?*shakes head* Wow, this whole thing has desended into the realm of playground nonsense.<p> Honey, no one is running you off, no one thinks BR is a god, no one hates you or has it in for you.

However, you've taken one little bit of miscommunication and overly sensitive feelings and turned it into a state of martyrdom for yourself. Please, don't turn this little molehill into Mount Everest.

Yes, this board is for everyone to express themselves but it is also a place where people share their views on things. You asked BR not to post to you and she hasn't since then, she has also ignored your baiting her in the other thread. You got what you wanted and she's respecting your wishes, time to let this go and use these boards for what they are meant for.<p> No one is mad at you or hates you, please don't project these things onto everyone here. You're hurt, so are all of us to one degree or other, let's stop the fighting before more hurt is passed around.<p>[ February 19, 2002: Message edited by: Nduli2 ]</p>


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